As previously mentioned, I speak not as an armchair theorist but a former tutor, continuing practitioner unpaid and relentless whistleblower, who has acted to prevent and stop various types of serious abuse and had to resort to courts and tribunals.
They shouldn't be blamed for falling prey to such distorted thoughts any more than a heart patient should be blamed for experiencing chest pain; it's simply the nature of their disease.
At some point, we all must have experienced nagging negative thoughts of suicide, which make us.
What kind of future lay ahead? You won't ever hear them again.
I don't buy into any of this bullshit about everybody has a purpose and so on.
In short, if the three objections are invalid, it is essentially because they ignore the direction of time.
Hence, the need to change our language about suicide.
We tell them they do matter.