That's what you want to be to attract the ladies.
This occurred not unconnected from the rise of neoliberalism during the 1980s.
Sure, a bad boy might be good at fighting.
Single life is actually the best and personally I love it.
It is unavoidable, women have never been programed to be attracted sexually speaking to nice men, that is a fact, that is the experience humans have lived for a long time.
To prevent all this, women are kept in their place.
During this time, the neoliberal establishment has been punishing mostly women in insecure jobs and income insecurity with high levels of stress.
A study of 172 college students found men reported falling in love earlier than women and expressing that sentiment first.